President’s tribute to Rabbi Harry & RaeAnn

Here is the tribute given by Aharon Ittah, President of Congregation Emanu-El, to Rabbi Harry, RaeAnn and family on the fifteenth anniversary of his service to the congregation: 

To
the Kehilah:

Fifteen years ago—immediately upon Rabbi Harry and his family’s arrival to take on his
first congregation and begin his High Holiday activities (which is when Rabbis
get to be “in the spotlight” so they can demonstrate their skill)—a young girl
suddenly died of natural causes. Rabbi Harry whisked off to help her family
make all the arrangements and deal with their tremendous shock—without a
backward glance, without worrying about his place as a new leader. I
admired his simple devotion to what mattered in that moment, in that time—for
me, this is the essence of Rabbi Harry’s teaching by modelling the very best behaviours.

Fifteen years
later… this shul has changed in many
ways, but some things have remained unchanged, including the Rabbi’s way of
teaching us through modelling. Another example of such teachings was the
stunning surprise at the 150th anniversary celebration of our synagogue, with dignitaries
from around the world, and our entire community watching, when Rabbi Harry presented
a shofar to Chief Andy Thomas, extending a sincere apology and asking for
forgiveness for wrongs done; an open and creative expression of Rabbi Harry’s
leadership and caring for all… in words and in action.

In 2016, the
shul is in a position that is new to
us. We are navigating, to some extent, through unfamiliar waters. For example,
the Hebrew School has never had so many students and teachers. Our kehilah is larger than it has ever been,
and it is growing; not just each year, but each month. Our suite of adult and youth programs
along with our depth of community outreach and in-reach has never been so broad—yet
producing so much impact. The Rabbi will say to you that our shul has changed through the effort of
many… And he’s right… It has. But it starts with one. Our
visionary leader has led us through challenging times, to a place where our shul flourishes in a phase where many
synagogues and churches do not. He does this through humble, servient
leadership, taking risks, being bold, teaching through sharing his own current
learnings, and especially through offering meaning to members of our community. 

I used the
word impact a moment ago. I also
referred to the term action in the
context of how Rabbi Harry expresses his leadership. I would imagine that each
and every one of you has a story, an experience where Rabbi Harry and perhaps
Rae-Ann guided you, led you, provided counsel, the result of which caused you
to take action with impact. Such action could be internal reflection, the
impact of which is renewed hope. Or the action could be to face your fears, the
impact of which is personal growth. I can share, with naked honesty, that it
wasn’t very long ago when I spent some months in a state of struggle. During
this time, each and every day, the Rabbi and Rae-Ann raised me to a place of
comfort and hope through telephone calls, text messages, and visits. Just
knowing that I had not just my family, but what felt like my community behind
me, allowed me to cope, learn and advance. As I mentioned before, I have no
doubt that there are others in this sanctuary that have a shared experience to
reflect on and be grateful for.

After
looking back we now look forward; forward to the next 15 years. As most of you
may know, the Rabbi and Rebetzen have committed to a further 15 years with our shul. Just recently the board and the
Rabbi came together to create a contract. With the help of a committee, I was
the primary liaison between the Rabbi and board, and the draftsperson of the
contract. When I say “draftsperson,” it was my job to write the legal mumbo
jumbo. For those of us that have employment contracts, there are some common
features… such as holiday time, remuneration, expectations etc. There is also
often a summary under the heading Duties. Imagine my anxiety when tasked with
drafting Rabbi Harry’s “Duties” to their full extent. It is almost laughable. I
met with Rabbi Harry to discuss the “Duties” aspect of the contract and (to my
great relief) he told me that he’d put something together. Well… He delivered.
Big time. Rabbi Harry emailed his list of “Duties” to me. They instantaneously
blew my mind. As a lawyer, I’ve looked at and drafted a lot of employment
contracts—I thought I had seen it all. What I saw was incredible.

Under Duties, the Rabbi had nine subheadings, following which he poetically described each
one. I’m going to share four with you. These four descriptions, in my view,
reflect duties that not only our Rabbi performs, but also the Rebetzen,
Rae-Ann. Read carefully and you’ll see. 

Ḥesed—Free
flowing love, kindness: mercy

Modelling
compassion; caring for congregants and friends of the congregation in times of
need.  Pastoral counselling, visiting the
sick, being a friend and a place of comfort, understanding and strength to
others.  Helping congregants find ways of
demonstrating love and care to others.  

Gvurah—power,
containment, judgment

Ensuring
that the congregation operates in ways that are righteous and in harmony with
Jewish Torah values.  Empowering
congregants to implement positive change in their lives.  Model restorative justice and values of
Tikkun Olam.  Containing and managing
crises, protecting and empowering the weak and disenfranchised.

Hod—beauty

Creating,
crafting, implementing synagogue experiences that are beautiful and
meaningful.  Ensuring that guests feel
welcomed and cared for.  Ensuring that
all aspects of synagogue life reflect the warmth and values of Congregation
Emanu-El as informed by our tradition.
Ensuring that experiences of all senses reflect authentic, genuine
Jewish life—even in forms that are progressive and alternative.  

Netzaḥ —victory and
eternity

Embracing
congregants and all Jews and non-Jews who enter the sphere of congregational
life.  Helping congregants find a niche
and place to bestow their personal unique gifts to the congregation.  Absorbing negativity and transforming it to
grow.  Helping to smooth areas of
congregational life and relationships that are rough or barbed.  Generating an attraction to congregational
life and Jewish values and lore.  Holding
and transforming the difficult and uncomfortable aspects of communal life.

Those
are four of the “Duties” described by the Rabbi. If you would like to see the
full extent of what he wrote, they are featured in last week’s newsletter and in the congregation’s online blog.

Rabbi,
Rae-Ann, Adar and Daveed, your congregants and the community at large are
incredibly grateful for your invaluable, immeasurable commitment to our shul and to Judaism, ACTION and IMPACT
here in Victoria and beyond. Thank you for the past 15 years. Thank you for the
gift of the next 15.

Short drash for R. Harry & RaeAnn

Shabbat in Honour of Rabbi
Harry, RaeAnn

Last Saturday,
June 18, 2016, Rabbi Louis Sutker made a special blessing for Rabbi Harry and
RaeAnn, and our Gabbai, Aaron Severs offered these words in their honour:

Thank you for the
privilege of saying a few words this morning. When I think of you both the
qualities that come to mind are authenticity, kavanah and gmilut ḥasadim.  

It does not
matter what the event is. Whether we are singing and dancing with the Torah
scrolls on Simchat Torah, or you are marching with us in the Pride Parade, or
we’re studying at the all-night Tikkun Leil Shavuot these are traits you
portray. These are the way you lead us & how you both act as powerful
examples (dugmaot) of how to live meaningful Jewish lives.

One issue close
to my heart is the Avodah Social Action Committee. Both my bashert Sue and I
are active members of this group. Earlier this week, Penny Tennenhouse reminded
me that it was back in 2003 that you Rabbi Harry put out the call to do some
social justice work in our broader Victoria community. It’s not enough to
simply talk the talk. We need to walk the walk. Since then, Avodah has been an
active player – one may say even a leader – on the social justice scene in
downtown Victoria. You challenge us to be cutting edge, to widen our tent, and
to encounter and open our hearts to “the other.” The other may be kids on the
street who need a warm meal and place to sleep, clients at Our Place who are
thrilled by the latke lunches for Hanukkah, or low income families that need
help with rental supplements. 

I can go on. Suffice
to say, that through your ruaḥ (spirit and positive energy) and caring, you
both support us in being the “little shul that can” and to achieve
extraordinary things. May you sprinkle that same positive energy and caring on
one another as you celebrate your upcoming wedding anniversary (yes, there’s a
mole in the sanctuary). To conclude, we are blessed as a kehillah to have you
and the boys as our rabbinic family, and for me personally to call you my Rav.

Yishar koaḥ to you
both! May we all go from strength to strength.

The Brechners: The first 15 years

Saturday, June 18

Join
us for a Special Kiddush in honour of Rabbi Harry and the Brechner Family’s 15
years at Congregation Emanu-El – June 18

Dear Friends,
This year marks Rabbi Harry, RaeAnn, Adar and Daveed’s 15th year in Victoria
and as our community leaders at Congregation Emanu-el. On behalf of the Board
of Directors, I am very pleased to announce, that Rabbi Harry and family have
recently confirmed that they will be with us for a further 15 years following
the completion and signing of the Rabbi’s contract.

I invite you all
to attend a very special kiddush in honour of the Brechner Family on Saturday,
June 18, 2016. Come and take part in acknowledging our Rabbi’s incredible
leadership and contribution all while looking forward to the next 15 years. 

If you would like
to participate in the sponsorship of the kiddush, please contact the synagogue
office at 250-382-0615 or donate online at www.congregationemanuel.ca.

Aharon Ittah, President

Poem for Rabbi Harry’s 50th Birthday

At the Saturday, November 23, 2013, service, Dvora Levin read the poem she wrote to Rabbi Harry.  Rabbi Harry’s family and friends provided the Kiddush luncheon in honour of his 50th birthday on November 26th.

(Ada Cotton provided Rabbi Harry’s birthday cake that came from Bubby Rose.)

In his 50th year, he welcomed our community to celebrate

the 150th Anniversary of Congregation Emanu-el,

leading us through moments of remembering,

moments of gratitude, moments of joy

and sadness too.

Our teacher, leading us

on the well-trodden road of ritual,

leading us into the mists of mystery,

expanding the energies of angels

and Rabbis who have gone before.

His passport stamped with so many places,

Israel, Russia, India, New York, New Orleans,

always returning with his suitcases filled

with more questions than answers,

more doors opening.

He gathers us, newborns, children, parents,

and those of us drifting nearer the gates,

calling out to artists, teaching

to the whir of grinding beans,

the hiss of espresso machines.

Davening on Shabbat, High Holidays, Thursdays

at 7am, John’s Place, our second minyan, 

he helps us be restored,

as our torah scrolls are restored,

as perfectly as we can.

This year, he joined so many mitzvoth volunteers

parading to the sounds of choirs, musicians

and oompa bands, auctioning treasures,

gifting apologies to our First Nations,

socks and birthday cakes to the poor,

Building new stairs to sanctuary, sanding smooth

the rough floors of our troubled minds.

And always, in all ways, Rabbi Harry inviting us

to be with him, together, to sing along, creating

and re-creating our community’s sacred song.

Dvora Levin